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Because we don’t speak about sex, there is no socially acceptable language surrounding it. So the language of porn has jumped in to fill that space, and that’s an issue, because in a male-dominated industry the language of porn is all too often male-generated. The person who coined the term “finger blasting” didn’t have a vagina. The person who coined the term, “getting your ass railed” never got their ass railed. Pounding, hammering, banging… And language matters, because when the only language you have available is abusive and one-directional, in terms of having things done to you, it creates a very weird view of how sex works.
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lawrencetheshark:

vinigri:

xdaringdamselx:

terezi-pie-rope:

[homestucks nodding as they reblog]

I swear I’ve never seen a fandom as chill about hate as Homestuck. Someone goes “HOMESTUCK SUCKS BLUH BLUH” and the Homestuck it’s directed at will just high-five them and go “DAMN STRAIGHT LOOK AT THIS BULLSHIT”

I’m actually pretty sure it was a homestuck who made this post

its funny to me because Homestuck is the most complex and deep and heart-wrenching story ive ever read but if you insult Homestuck i and every other person in this fandom will just agree without a second thought

lawrencetheshark:

vinigri:

xdaringdamselx:

terezi-pie-rope:

[homestucks nodding as they reblog]

I swear I’ve never seen a fandom as chill about hate as Homestuck. Someone goes “HOMESTUCK SUCKS BLUH BLUH” and the Homestuck it’s directed at will just high-five them and go “DAMN STRAIGHT LOOK AT THIS BULLSHIT”

I’m actually pretty sure it was a homestuck who made this post

its funny to me because Homestuck is the most complex and deep and heart-wrenching story ive ever read but if you insult Homestuck i and every other person in this fandom will just agree without a second thought

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jesec:

JLU- Amanda Waller Appreciation Post
This lady is badass. In one night, she:
Defies the President
Almost destroys the Watchtower
Tells Batman to get out of her face
Calls Luthor “baldy”
Shoots Luthor
Almost nukes Metropolis
Let’s not even forget that she single-handedly orchestrated the near total downfall of all the superheroes on earth and we see her next season drinking wine at a fine restaurant with no charges against her.
And the best thing? She didn’t need an hourglass figure to do all this.

jesec:

JLU- Amanda Waller Appreciation Post

This lady is badass. In one night, she:

Defies the President

Almost destroys the Watchtower

Tells Batman to get out of her face

Calls Luthor “baldy”

Shoots Luthor

Almost nukes Metropolis

Let’s not even forget that she single-handedly orchestrated the near total downfall of all the superheroes on earth and we see her next season drinking wine at a fine restaurant with no charges against her.

And the best thing? She didn’t need an hourglass figure to do all this.

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I’m going to make a very firm statement right now: The only people who have the right to define what bisexuality is are people who identify as bisexual. If they were to come to a major consensus to say “Yes, bisexuality refers to loving two genders or two sexes, and only that” then it would be one thing. It’s also different from bisexuals who say “I am bisexual because I am interested in both men and women.” Instead, a definition is being pushed onto bisexuals by people who do not identify with the label rather than by people who identify with it.

As pansexuals, this is something that needs to stop. We are perfectly capable of defining ourselves without automatically framing it as an alternative to bisexuality. And we are perfectly capable of responding to the inevitable “…so, you’re bi then?” responses with “no, I do not identify with that” rather than “but bisexuals are binarists/transphobic/only open to two genders!” Until we do that, we are perpetuating the same devaluation of identity that causes some bisexuals to make ignorant statements that pansexuals are just hipster bisexuals who want to be special snowflakes. If you oppose pansexuality being defined as an attention-seeking form of bisexuality for hipsters, don’t make the same mistake by giving self-congratulatory definitions of bisexuality.
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